{"id":9947,"date":"2021-11-15T11:00:17","date_gmt":"2021-11-15T10:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/passodue.flywheelsites.com\/?p=9947"},"modified":"2021-11-22T10:48:07","modified_gmt":"2021-11-22T09:48:07","slug":"magic-words-for-salespeople","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/en\/2021\/11\/15\/magic-words-for-salespeople\/","title":{"rendered":"Magic words to sell"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">by<a href=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/en\/about-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00a0Alice Alessandri\u00a0<\/a>and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/en\/about-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Alberto Aleo<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">Thanks to our job we get the opportunity to meet hundreds of salespeople and professionals every year. They certainly represent a good sample which shows what people really expect from sales <a href=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/en\/calendar\/\">training courses<\/a> or business consultants. What\u2019s for sure is that <span class=\"text-highlight\">sooner or later, more or less directly, the crucial request will be: \u201c<strong>what&#8217;s the magic word for selling<\/strong>?\u201d<\/span>. Whether you\u2019re dealing with sceptical or enthusiastic sellers, whether they have just started or have many years of experience, they will probably ask you \u2013 a qualified trainer and expert consultant \u2013 to answer this question:<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><em>\u201cWhat if the client shuts the door in my face? What shall I say to get a second chance?\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17033 size-full\" title=\"Magic words to sell\" src=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/magia.jpg\" alt=\"Magic words to sell\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1309\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">This question will come as a challenge, as a consequence of inexperience or of so many training courses promising ready-made \u201dmagic&#8221; solutions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><strong>Our answer is that \u201copen sesame\u201d doesn\u2019t exist in real life<\/strong>, that it is very difficult to recover after someone \u201cshuts the door in our face\u201d, that our approach is based on the concept that \u201cif you ask me for fish, the best thing I can do is to show you how to fish\u201d etc.. etc\u2026 in brief we usually answer that <span class=\"text-highlight\">\u201cno, we don\u2019t know any magic spells\u201d. However we do know two words which can bring magic to your jobs and your lives: change and awareness<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">Those who ask for magic spells and formulas for successful sales are in fact expressing the need for some quick trick to improve their <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/en\/2019\/07\/15\/sales-performance-analysis-lets-start-from-the-bottom\/\">business performances<\/a><\/strong>. Therefore we have to get them to think about a very important circumstance, which Einstein expressed with these words:<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><em>\u201cIf you want different results, do not do the same things\u201d.<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><span class=\"text-highlight\">It\u2019s as simple as that, you only have to make a <strong>change<\/strong> \u2013 even a small one \u2013 in your daily life<\/span>. However, as is often the case with easy and reasonable things, this simple rule is not always applied: hence the request for \u201cmagic words\u201d, which really means \u201cI&#8217;ll keep doing the same old things, just give me one more trick\u2026\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">This is when the \u201cpower\u201d of <strong>awareness<\/strong> kicks in: <span class=\"text-highlight\">in order to make a change we need to be aware of our current way of acting and of the results it produces<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17015 size-full\" title=\"Magic words to sell\" src=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Consapevolezza.jpg\" alt=\"Magic words to sell\" width=\"1918\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">Someone might object that the results don\u2019t depend entirely on our actions but are also linked to the context. In other words :<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<blockquote><p><em><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">\u201cWhy is it my fault if the client shuts the door in my face?\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">It is a standard objection which needs to be revised by inviting our interlocutors to answer two kinds of questions:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"check-list\">\n<li><span class=\"text-highlight\"><em><span style=\"line-height: 15px; font-size: 18px;\">Has anyone managed to sell anything to this precise client? If so, how?<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span class=\"text-highlight\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">How am I relating to this client? How can I change my approach in order to obtain a different result?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">Two main concepts are at the basis of these considerations:<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<blockquote><p><em><span class=\"s1\"><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">If &#8211; despite the economic crisis, market recession and hostile clients &#8211; some people still manage to sell and succeed, then this means we can still improve the way we act. Giving importance to aspects which don\u2019t depend on ourselves is useless; <strong>let\u2019s concentrate instead on what <a href=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/en\/2015\/11\/23\/responsibility\/\">we can control<\/a><\/strong>.<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">All the colleagues and friends who, like us, work everyday to <strong>improve their clients&#8217; performances<\/strong>, <span class=\"text-highlight\">know that awareness and change are at the basis of any <strong>growing process<\/strong> &#8211; be it business-related, strategic, organizational or personal<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17013\" src=\"https:\/\/diariodiunconsulente.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Become-te-CEO-of-your-life.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1919\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>\u2013 \u2013 \u2013<br \/>\n<em><span class=\"s1\">To achieve maximum results these two concepts must pervade our Business and our job at various levels and include processes and skills, management and operational staff, theory and daily practice.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/em>\u2013 \u2013 \u2013<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">They are like \u201cmuscles\u201d that need to be trained with discipline and method, keeping in mind that not even the most powerful wizards have purchased their magic formulas at the \u201cMerlin &amp; Morgana outlet\u201d. In fact they started as apprentices and have learnt to prepare their effective \u201cpotions&#8221; with their own hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre>| partem claram semper aspice |<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are no magic formulas or infallible spells to sell. 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